HEAR & BE HEARD MASTERCLASS

(Click the ⚙️ to watch at 1.5X speed)

My 1:1 Coaching Program

INTRODUCING…

The private, 4-month coaching experience to transform conflict into connection and truly feel at home within yourself.

You’ll walk away with the concrete tools to navigate even the hardest conversations with clarity and compassion … and a relationship with yourself that changes everything.

LET'S DO THIS

You deserve to feel deeply understood. By your partner. And by yourself.

Four months from now, you could have…

  • Conversations that lead to real resolution — where both people feel heard

  • The kind of closeness that only comes from actually working through the hard stuff together.

  • A toolkit for your own difficult emotions — so you can stay present instead of spiraling or shutting down.

APPLY NOW

Take It From Our Students:

Sarah went from constant misunderstandings in her marriage to “being in the best place we’ve ever been, and it’s only getting better.”

Alyssa went from avoiding conflict to navigating it confidently with a “night and day” difference in her own self-compassion.

Chris went from “endless fighting” with his wife to communicating effectively and feeling deeply connected again

Kelly went from “keeping the peace” and feeling uneasy in her relationship to creating resolution and deeper intimacy with her partner.

Miranda went from lingering unresolved conflict with her partner to having the tools to move forward as a team and work through her own difficult emotions.

Adri went from the fights with her partner “getting worse and worse” to being able to communicate through any issue.

Is This You? 

  • You keep landing in the same draining arguments, even when you’re trying to connect.

  • You fight about how you fight instead of the real issue.

  • Conflict feels tense or pointless — so you avoid it until it explodes.

  • You’ve read the books, tried therapy…but still lack step-by-step tools that work in real life.

  • You swallow your needs to keep the peace — or don’t know how to express them so they actually land.

  • When hard emotions hit, you numb out, get busy, or distract yourself instead of knowing what to do with them.

If this sounds familiar, this is exactly what we work on together

ENOUGH SAID, I'M IN

What you’ll walk away with:

Real resolution, not just temporary relief

Simple, practical tools to help you create mutual understanding — so you stop having the same fights on repeat

Connection that actually deepens through conflict

Learn to communicate vulnerably in a way that melts the “Me vs. You” dynamic and brings you closer, even in hard moments.

Accountability without the shame spiral 

Learn to own your part in conflict — without guilt-tripping yourself or turning it into a blame game.

A kinder relationship with yourself

Know how to work through your triggers, calm your nervous system, and stop being your own harshest critic — because how you treat yourself shows up everywhere.

Hi, I’m Ivy!

I help people have better relationships—starting with the one they have with themselves.

My clients come to me when they’re done walking on eggshells, tired of the same exhausting arguments, or craving the deeper connection that only happens when you stop avoiding the hard stuff.

My superpower? Helping you understand yourself on a deeper level so that you can change your life and relationships from the inside out.

I grew up in a high-conflict home and carried those cycles into my adult relationships: the argument that went in circles for hours because neither of us had the tools to truly listen. The defensive snap at someone I loved because I hadn’t learned to catch what was happening inside me first.

Those experiences because the foundation of everything I teach.

I’m certified through the International Coaching Federation (ICF), trained with Accomplishment Coaching, and certified in Heart Led Communication through Lead by Heart. My clients know me for creating an empowering, safe, and supportive space where transformation feels not just possible—but inevitable.

TAKE THE NEXT STEP

Take it from our clients who are healing their relationships from the inside out.

Ashley went from having the same fights with her boyfriend to now being engaged with a completely transformed approach to conflict: “nobody has to be wrong anymore.”

Alec went from trying couple’s therapy without success to feeling “shocked” by the results she got through coaching.

Sarah shares, “as someone who’s done therapy and who has now done coaching, it blows my mind how much more I’ve gotten out of coaching.”

Abby went from arguing everyday "for hours" with her boyfriend to breaking that pattern and being able to deeply understand and empathize with his experience.

Ren went from desperate to communicate effectively to being able to communicate with himself and others more clearly & compassionately.

Dan went from struggling to get results out of therapy to getting “an immediate return on investment” with coaching.

  • Step 1: fill out a brief application by clicking any of the buttons on this page

    Step 2: Schedule a discovery call with Ivy to dive into your situation and answer all your questions

    Step 3: If it’s a YES for both of you, you’ll get enrolled right on the call

  • You’re not alone — almost every client has this worry when they start. Many have tried books, therapy, or communication tips before without lasting change.

    The difference with my 1:1 coaching program is that you’ll learn a complete, step-by-step framework for understanding your patterns, shifting them in real time, and actually repairing conflict — not just in theory, but with guided practice and coaching until it becomes second nature.

  • Nope. You’ll never be thrown into the deep end without support. Everything is paced so you feel safe, steady, and in control of your growth. In fact, many conflict-avoidant clients say coaching with Ivy finally made communication feel do-able instead of overwhelming.

  • Couples therapy often focuses on resolving specific issues together. 1:1 Coaching equips you with personal mastery over your patterns, so you’re not just solving today’s argument — you’re preventing tomorrow’s.

    Plus, you’ll learn exactly how to self-regulate, validate, and communicate vulnerably without waiting for your partner to “meet you halfway.”

  • For best results, you need to be willing to commit 2-3 hours of time TOTAL per week.

    1 hour for your coaching call.
    1-2 hours for homework to implement what you’ve learned. This is what helps it “stick.”

  • The weekly call times are flexible, and scheduled based on your and Ivy’s availability.

  • Yes! If you are currently single, this program will help you develop the skills to set your next relationship up for success. Additionally, the skills you’ll learn will apply to every type of relationship — not just romantic. 

    Clients who join to improve their romantic relationship always end up saying that the skills they learned transferred to their relationships with family, friends, their children, and at work.

  • You get to keep lifetime access to the course & program materials. These tools are foundational to your relationship(s) so we want you to keep them forever!

  • All of the work inside 1:1 Coaching is primarily focused on you, but your partner is welcome to do some or all of the program alongside you.

    The majority of people join without their partner, and report having much greater results than they did together in couple’s therapy.

    The tools you’ll learn are designed to open your partner’s heart and actually hear you, without them having to use the tools too.

    However, you will get best results if you partner is supportive and willing to participate in a few exercises with you throughout the program. 

  • There are a couple of different prices and payment options, which can all be found in the application.

    On your discovery call with Ivy, you can discuss a custom-tailored program if you wish to have more or fewer sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What You Get:

✅ Weekly, 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions directly with Ivy (16 calls total)

✅ Unlimited support & accountability between calls

✅ Lifetime access to Seen, Ivy’s 7-module course ($1K value)

✅ Reading recommendations, worksheets, and done-for-you scripts — so you can implement what you’re learning in between calls

✅ Emotional regulation & communication tools you’ll use for the rest of your life — not just in your romantic relationship

APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING