Hi, I’m Ivy!

I help people have better relationships—starting with the one they have with themselves.

My clients come to me when they’re tired of walking on eggshells, getting stuck in the same arguments, or aching for deeper connection — the kind that happens when we stop avoiding the hard stuff. I know the sting of conflict that doesn’t make sense until hours later.

Like the time my sister made a totally harmless comment and I snapped back defensively—because I was projecting my own self-judgment onto her words.

Or the countless arguments I used to have with past romantic partners that went in circles for hours because neither of us had the tools to truly listen or repair.

Those were hard moments. But they became mirrors—showing me what needed healing inside myself.

Now, I get to teach my clients how to use difficult moments—not as proof that something’s wrong with them, but as doorways into transformation.

I blend conscious communication tools, mindfulness, and self-compassion to help you understand your patterns, feel seen and heard, and stay connected even when it’s hard.

My work is informed by Internal Family Systems (IFS), Nonviolent Communication (NVC), inner child healing, and years of both personal practice and professional training.

I’m a Mindset and Relationship Coach certified through the International Coaching Federation (ICF).

I trained for two years with Accomplishment Coaching—first as a coach, then as a mentor coach—and I’m certified in Heart Led Communication through Lead by Heart.I help my clients feel safe, seen, and supported in our work together, so they can start experiencing the life and relationships they truly desire.

Clients Results

  • "Before coaching with Ivy, I felt lost and stuck with my new business that I was trying to launch and improving my romantic relationship. I now truly understand the power of my relationship with myself, and have so many more tools to bring about the things that I want in my life, and feel empowered while doing it.  I have clarity around what I offer in my business, and I started getting weekly consultations with prospective clients, consistently. My relationship with my partner has completely transformed because I’m tending to my own needs. I’m also just a lot happier. I bring joy into a lot more spaces because I’m happier. I would recommend working with Ivy to anyone. It’s seriously worth it."

    Jasmine, USA

  • "Through my work with Ivy, I’ve realized my worth, my power, and I’m beginning to trust those. I am more self-aware, able to recognize my triggers, and learned how to set boundaries in my life. I am reframing old beliefs that no longer serve me or my purpose. Ivy's attentiveness is contagious. She sees things, brings them to light, and eventually, you begin to see them yourself. Her authenticity is admirable and her consistent compassion is very much appreciated."

    Nicole, USA

  • "Before coaching, I had low self-esteem and a lot of negative self-talk. I struggled setting boundaries, saying no, and prioritizing my own self-care. Working with Ivy has helped me become more accepting, forgiving, and loving toward myself. Ivy’s coaching and facilitation was very useful, and helped me gain more confidence and self-trust, as well as showed me how to manage my mindset in a way that empowers me."

    Valerie, Singapore

  • "Before I started working with Ivy, I didn’t realize that I was creating stories about myself and my circumstances that were keeping me stuck and putting off my dreams, including my dream of becoming a pilot. Ivy gave me so many new tools that will continue to help me achieve anything I want and helped me transform my perspective and gave me deep accountability, as well as a strong sense of community and support. To those who are on the fence about coaching — do it. Think of it as a gift to yourself. There are so many tools that will help you no matter what it is you want to transform."

    Lina, USA

  • "I was genuinely surprised by how much the tools work. Ivy was so supportive during our sessions, which made it super easy to open up and share my thoughts, feelings, and needs without hesitation. My wife and I are now in a very good space that feels much more harmonious. We’re able to navigate conflict more constructively, I understand her needs, and it’s helped us have a deeper connection."

    Chris, Belgium

  • "My partner and I are now engaged and our relationship is so much stronger. My approach to conflict has completely transformed: nobody has to be wrong anymore. I can deeply understand a person’s pain and be able to give both of our experiences space to exist simultaneously. I’m also so much kinder to myself."

    Ashley, USA

  • "This has been game-changing for my entire life. I can communicate to myself and others so much more clearly and compassionately. I can now validate others’ experiences even when they’re different from mine. Everything in my life just feels smoother."

    Ren, USA

  • “Working with Ivy made me feel so seen and heard. I was genuinely surprised by how well the coaching works. After the first few weeks, I started seeing what I learned in our sessions actually working and showing up in my day to day life: Something happened in my romantic life and I was able to pinpoint exactly what I was going through and figure it out with the tools I had so far. That wasn’t something I was able to do before.”

    Summer, The Bahamas

  • “Before working with Ivy, I was living a life I hated. I was attached to things and relationships that weren't serving me. Ivy has helped me to gain the courage to become my most authentic self, speak my truth, and let go of toxic relationships. Working with Ivy has opened me up to healing and to the rest of my life as I move forward with intention and authenticity.”

    Charlene, United Kingdom

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